Many employed or self-employed
mothers (writers, publishers, business owners, nurses, and others)
are homeschooling their children while working from a few to over
40 hours a week. Some separate work and school, doing each at a particular
time; others consider life as school - their children are always learning.
"How do you teach your children and maintain the rest of your responsibilities?
First of all,
we are very content
with being homebodies, so we do not spend huge amounts of time on
field trips or on other activities that pull us in too many directions,"
says Deb Deffinbaugh, co-owner (with husband Dan) of Timberdoodle
Company.
Finding Time - "You're going to have to decide what's important.
If you work, something else is going to have to give. You may be able
to do everything for a while, but your sanity or health will suffer
eventually," says Nancy Greer. Nancy works outside her home over 40
hours a week while her husband works at his home business. Then with
her family, she spends 32 hours of the weekend at a home for handicapped
children. On top of that, the Greers publish a newsletter and run
a homeschool supply company (F.U.N. News and Books)!
In order to find
the time to combine working and homeschooling, keep a record of what
you do - every hour of every day - for a week or two. Then, add the
number of hours spent on each type of activity. You might see that
you have wasted hours doing things that could be eliminated, and replaced
with more worthwhile endeavors. And most of us could become more efficient.
Catherine White recommends, "Simplify housework and cooking, eliminate
TV, stay home and run all errands on one day." (Nick and Catherine
White publish An Encouraging Word.)
Scheduling - A twelve-month schedule
works for some, while others do school during the months that business
is slower. With a nine-to-five job, two to three hours each evening
and four or more on the weekend could meet individual goals and requirements.
(Total supervised hours would depend on such factors as whether your
child can do independent study, your state's requirements, and how
much informal learning you plan to do.) Saturdays would be ideal for
hands-on activities, museums, reading, workbooks, or texts. On Sundays,
study the Bible - read and dictate to teach language arts, hear recitation
of memory verses for speech practice, and read aloud about creation
science or church history.
Elise Griffith - who has two home businesses
- says, "I 'work' mainly during afternoon quiet time and after the
boys go to bed." This plan - dividing the day in half, doing school
in the morning and work in the afternoon - is common. Children can
either nap, work on projects, read, or play while Mom works. Anne
Olwin - artist, writer and business owner - suggests, "Prepare ahead
of time for deadlines." And Catherine White wisely explains, "Fit
school in - don't be rigid - sometimes fit work in."
Schooling Efficiently
- Many parents with children in public or private schools spend some
time each night helping with homework - reteaching such things as
phonics or creation, or reading aloud. With a
read-aloud session nightly, a homeschooled
child can surpass his public school counterpart, especially in language
arts. Since you will be reading to your child, you can use the public
library and skip over objectionable parts, or explain the subject
biblically.
Begin "schooling" with cuddling and reading to your young
child. Then when he or she shows an interest in doing more, teach
school subjects one at a time. First cover phonics thoroughly, then
go on to reading practice with very easy books. Work on penmanship
next, and follow that with creative writing. (Your young child will
create more profusely if you do some of the actual writing, as he
or she dictates.) Lastly present basic math concepts, including some
drill. Strive for a degree of mastery in each area before going on
the the next. You save time, and your child retains his or her desire
to learn with this easy start.
Combining activities also conserves
limited time. While your children are doing penmanship or art projects,
read historical or scientific biographies aloud. Integrate speech
with literature or history, geography with missions, nature study
with family time, and vacations with science (or history, or art)
as you visit museums and historical sites.
Teaching Responsibility
- Once your children know how to read, they can take responsibility
for their own learning. Deb Deffinbaugh says, "Children desire to
have as much control as possible over their lives, and a system of
accountability is a wonderful way to introduce them to the adult world
of responsibilities and consequences."
Mary Leonard (who works two
12-hour shifts each week as an RN) says, "The secret is in the planning,
and in setting expectations. I wrote contracts with my 12-year-old
son, so he knows exactly what he must do in each subject, and with
what level of accuracy. The time I must spend with him is primarily
in evaluation of his work and feedback."
Child Care - A babysitter
may come to the child's home, where school books and toys are readily
available. Some older, responsible children are able to get their
schooling and chores done on their own, while their parents work.
Children could also stay with a relative - such as a grandparent -
and help with chores and projects.
Could you teach your children and
yet maintain the responsibilities of a job or business? Efficient
methods can help. Just remember Anne Olwin's sound advice to "laugh
and keep a good sense of humor," because "everything is more difficult
and takes longer if you don't." Then like Catherine White, you may
say, "We love what we do and like to be busy!"